Second rule in friendship: Be prepared. Some just come and go, change is inevitable.
Third rule: Be true and the best and great friend you can be.
To be frank, I'm one of those people who are afraid of losing friends. One minute they'll say they will never change, the next minute they have new friends, they're ranting about you, and then bam. In the blink of an eye, done. It's over, once it's ruined, it can never be the same again.
I'm one of those people who never actually leave people behind. It's just that they choose to make me their second choice or option, and once their first option is gone, that's when they notice my importance. That's when they say they need me. And if ever you experience the same, just tell them what you really feel. Don't let yourself be a second option, because you're much more important and better than that. Know who your real friends are, don't pretend like everything's fine when it's not.
Another thing I want you to know, be prepared, because high school is like the maze in Harry Potter during "Harry Potter and The Goblet of Fire". The maze changes people. Goes the same to high school. Again, change is inevitable. There's nothing we can do about it, but we have a choice. A choice to make ourselves feel happy and not suiting up to everyone else's expectations of what they want us to be, because then, you'd just be sad inside and outside.
"You spend your whole life stuck in the labyrinth, thinking about how you'll escape it one day. And how awesome it will be, and imaging that future keeps you going, but you never do it. You just use the future to escape the present."
-John Green, Looking for Alaska
Do what you need to do when you still have the time, don't always depend on tomorrow, because if you always do, there's nothing to look forward for tomorrow.
Here in the end, let me just say, "Choose your friends wisely.". People say you can't choose your friends, but you can. Learn trust. Be prepared for change. Be the best you can. Also learn in friendship, that everyone is equal. You should learn how to be sensitive.
I'm done. You may now move on with your lives.
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